
#2 of 10 - Business Coaching Series - Read time: 6 mintues
Belief + Strategy = Success
Success isn't just strategy OR belief - it's both working together. Here's how to build the feedback loop that creates unstoppable momentum.
Welcome back to coaching moment number two. Last week we talked about how you're meant to be here (even when it doesn't feel like it) and why that doubt in your head isn't the enemy – it's actually your growth indicator.
Now that we've established you belong in this entrepreneurial game, let's talk about what actually separates the businesses that thrive from the ones that just survive.
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Here's what I've learned after watching hundreds of entrepreneurs in my website design business: success isn't about having perfect confidence OR having the world's best business plan. It's about having both belief and strategy working together like a power couple that actually likes each other. Consistently.
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The Strategy-Only Trap (Why Smart People Stay Stuck)
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You know that person who has color-coded spreadsheets, perfectly mapped customer journeys, and a business plan that would make Harvard professors weep with joy? But they're charging bargain-basement prices and haven't actually made the business work yet.
TOPICS IN THIS SERIES
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You're Meant to Be Here
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Belief + Strategy = Success
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What Stops You From Taking Action?
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What Are You Actually Selling?
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The Numbers Don't Lie
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Who's Your Person?
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The Trust Factor
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The Client Journey
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Your Money Story
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Where Strategy Meets Reality
That's strategy without belief, and it's painful to watch.
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Take someone who sells online courses and consulting for setting up Virtual Assistant businesses.
She spent months crafting the perfect curriculum, got every industry certification possible, and built a gorgeous website. Her strategy was flawless. Her execution? Half-hearted at best. She was charging $50 per session for VA business consulting because deep down, she didn't believe anyone would pay more for "just sharing what I already know."
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All that strategic brilliance meant nothing because her belief couldn't cash the checks her strategy was trying to write.
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​When you have strategy but lack belief, you'll sabotage your own success every time. You'll undercharge, over-deliver, and wonder why you're working twice as hard for half the results. Your strategy becomes a beautiful plan that you're too scared to actually execute at full capacity.

The Belief-Only Delusion (Why Passionate People Burn Out)
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On the flip side, we've got the believers. These are the people who know they're meant to change the world, have unwavering confidence in their abilities, and could sell ice to penguins if they wanted to.
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But ask them about their lead generation system? Crickets. Lead magnet? Nope.
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Their client onboarding process? "I just figure it out as I go."
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Their pricing strategy? "I charge what feels right in the moment."
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Consider a real estate agent who absolutely believes she can help anyone find their dream home. She's passionate, knowledgeable, and clients love working with her. But she has no consistent strategy for generating leads, no systematic follow-up process, and wonders why her income feels like a roller coaster she can't control.
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All the belief in the world won't save you if you don't have systems to support your success. You'll work harder, not smarter, and eventually burn out wondering why your passion isn't paying the bills.
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The Magic Formula That Actually Works
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Here's where it gets interesting: belief and strategy aren't separate ingredients you mix together once. They're like a feedback loop that keeps getting stronger.
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Strategy executed with belief creates micro-wins.
Micro-wins build more belief.
More belief leads to bolder strategy execution.
Bolder execution creates bigger wins.
Bigger wins build unshakeable belief.
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See how that works?
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Let's say you believe you can help people but you're charging $100 for something worth $500. Your strategy says "raise your prices," but your belief whispers "nobody will pay that much." So you compromise and raise it to $150.
Someone pays $150. Micro-win. Your belief gets a little stronger.
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Next month, you raise it to $200. Another client pays. Another micro-win. Belief grows stronger.
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Fast forward six months, and you're confidently charging $500 because you have evidence that people will pay for value. Your strategy didn't change – your belief caught up to what your strategy already knew.
How to Identify What You're Missing
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Most people think they need more strategy when they actually need more belief, or vice versa. Here's how to figure out which one needs attention:
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You need more belief if:
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You have a solid plan, but keep finding excuses not to execute it
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You consistently undercharge for your services
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You have the skills, but doubt people will pay for them
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You start strong, then lose momentum when things get challenging
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You need more strategy if:
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You're working constantly, but not seeing consistent results
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Your income feels unpredictable despite your best efforts
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You know you can help people, but struggle to find them consistently
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You're passionate, but feel like you're reinventing the wheel every day
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You need both if:
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You're stuck in analysis paralysis, perfecting plans you're afraid to implement
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You're hustling hard but feeling overwhelmed and scattered
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You swing between feeling confident and feeling lost
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Building Belief Through Evidence (Not Affirmations)
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Forget standing in front of the mirror saying "I am worthy of success" fifty times. That's not how belief actually builds.
Belief builds through evidence, and evidence comes from action.
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Remember that Evidence File we started in article one? Time to level it up. You've been documenting wins, but now we're going to be more strategic about it.
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Start tracking patterns in your success. Which types of clients get the best results? What problems do you solve most effectively? When do you feel most confident in your expertise? This isn't just feel-good record keeping – this is market research for your belief system.
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Create categories in your Evidence File: "Problems I solve uniquely," "Client transformations," "Skills that come naturally to me," and "Times I exceeded expectations." The goal is to see themes that prove you're not just good at what you do – you're specifically good at helping certain people in certain ways.
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Your brain has selective memory when doubt shows up, but documented patterns don't lie.
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Your Strategy-Belief Action Plan
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Here's how to strengthen both simultaneously:
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This week, pick one strategic system to implement. Not a complete business overhaul – one system. Maybe it's a follow-up sequence for potential clients. Maybe it's a content calendar. Maybe it's a simple client onboarding process.
Execute that system with full belief. Don't do it halfway because you're "just testing." Execute it like you know it's going to work because you designed it to work.
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Request testimonials immediately after completing work. The moment a client gets results or expresses satisfaction, ask for a testimonial. Don't wait for the "perfect time" or worry about bothering them. Strike while the gratitude is hot and the results are fresh in their mind.
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Document the results. What worked? What didn't? What surprised you? Add any wins to your Evidence File, and update those pattern categories we talked about.
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Adjust and repeat. Better strategy based on real results. Stronger belief based on the evidence you created.
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The Foundation Everything Else Is Built On
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Here's what most business advice gets wrong: they treat belief and strategy like separate problems requiring separate solutions. But they're two sides of the same coin, and you need both to buy your ticket to sustainable success.
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You can't strategy your way out of a belief problem. You can't believe your way out of a strategy gap. But when you have both working together? That's when business stops feeling like you're pushing a boulder uphill and starts feeling like you're riding a wave you created.
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Your next eight articles will give you the specific strategies you need. But none of them will work if you don't believe you're meant to execute them successfully.
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You are meant to be here. You're meant to succeed. And now you know the formula that makes it inevitable.
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Belief + Strategy = Success. Not someday. Not when you feel ready. Starting right now.
Still stuck? Type this prompt into ChatGPT, CoPilot or your fave AI platform.
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I just completed a quiz online by a coach for online business. A topic came up and my answer showed that I still have work to do. Can we have a business therapy session right now so that you can help me work through it?
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Topic: I have a solid business strategy, but I'm not executing it fully because deep down I don't believe I can charge what it's worth or that people will actually pay me.
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Ideal outcome: That I understand how to build genuine belief through evidence and action, and that I create a feedback loop where small wins build the confidence I need to execute my strategy boldly.
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Ask me a question and let's take it from there.


Hi, I'm Birit
I’m a business owner, mom of two, and former survivor turned strategist — building elegant, intuitive online businesses that help clients step into their next chapter with clarity and confidence.